Marlon Brando Can’t Remember Sleeping with a Bond Girl

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Bruce Willis want’s his 20’s back.

Marlon Brando wrote in his auto-biography, that he had to call Ursula Andress to see if he had slept with her or not. He couldn’t remember. She answered yes.

It’s hard to believe that Brankdo couldn’t remember sleeping with someone once considered to be the most beautiful woman in the world. Someone who might have been his ultimate lover. He couldn’t remember sleeping with Honey Rider from Dr. No?

Some young man once told me that when it came to women, he was in search of the ‘ultimate lover’. “Who would it be?” he asked rhetorically. Blond, brunette, redhead? Where would this ultimate lover live? American, Hong Kong, France?”

Well, I had no answer. That’s not the way I thought, even though lots of guys like to ‘date ’em and rate ’em’.

Years past and that question, juvenile as it was, stayed with me. Then I saw Joan Rivers interviewing some ex-rock ‘n roll groupie girl, who had slept with four or five rock stars. The groupie, now a woman of forty, had written a book about it. The last question that Joan asked was, “Which of these guys was the best in bed?”

The girl answered calmly, “All of them because I was in love.”

Then that juvenile question about the ‘ultimate lover’ came to mind and I got the answer. Who is your ultimate lover? The answer is, of course, you.

Yes, you are the ultimate lover. It depends on where your mind and emotions were at the time. Were you in love? Was your imagination working? Was it in Cario with the sunrise light hitting the Spinx, painting your room with shards of light as it was happening?

Bruce Willis said:
“In my 20’s, I moved from relationship to relationship, from experience to experience, without paying attention. Now I want my 20’s back.”

Now is a great time to start paying attention.

Yes, pay attention, so you’ won’t have slept with Honey Rider from Dr. No, and when you’re fifty can’t remember having laid eyes on her.

Bruce Willis’ Lifestyle Warning

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Also, Marlon Brando couldn’t remember sleeping with a Bond Girl. This is purposely short for impact.

BRUCE WILLIS said:

“In my 20’s, I moved from relationship to relationship, from experience to experience, without paying attention. Now I want my 20’s back.”

Now is a great time to start paying attention.

Bruce was not talking about ‘wasting’ time, he was talking about remembering. When Marlon Brando was writing his autobiography he had to call Ursula Andress to ask if they had slept together. She said ‘yes’.

Brando had slept with a Bond Girl and didn’t remember it. Go figure. If any other guy had slept with Ursula, he’d remember. I bet James Bond paid attention in Dr. No and remembers.

Thusly, Bruce Willis’ comment can keep us focused in the present, and make us pay attention, remember and savor our deeds.

Bill Medley regrets breaking James Bond Lifestyle rule #5

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In Bill Medley’s new book: The Time of My Life – A Righteous Brother’s Memoir, he says:

In Las Vegas, I went to my road manager’s office. I was not dressed well for such a meeting; I was wearing slippers, a ratty old sweater and Levis. I also hadn’t shaved for about three days. We noticed that Bobby Darin was playing at the Flamingo, so we snuck in the back because I was dressed so badly.

Halfway through the show, Bobby announces, “Ladies and gentlemen, Bill Medley from the Righteous Brothers is here. Bill come on up.” There was no way, dressed like I was, that I was going to get up there. I signaled a polite “no thanks” but Bobby persisted with the band playing What’d I Say, while I kept saying, “No, no thanks,” for three minutes.

“C’mon up Bill,” Bobby said, not giving up. Finally my road manager said, “You’re just gonna have to go up….and start dressing better.”

As I got up, I hit the table and a pitcher of beer spilled all over my crotch. Dressed like a homeless guy, with my pants looking like I’d just had a bladder accident, I took the stage. Since the band was playing, I couldn’t stop and explain what had happened. Thank God this was before cell phone cameras.

After the song I said, “Bobby, sorry for the way I’m dressed, I was just coming into town for a quick meeting and I spilled a pitcher of beer on my way up here.” Bobby cracked up, along with the audience.

I did learn a great lesson though. Believe me, I never go out in public looking like that anymore, and I’m extra careful about having pitchers of liquids on my table. In hindsight, it was one of my most embarrassing moments, but a funny one, too.

James Bond Lifestyle rule #5: I dress up, even at home alone.

‘Limitless’ Movie Has Wisedom

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This article contains many spoilers about Limitless. See the movie first, then come back to this article.

Our hero Eddie gets access to 100% of his brain by using a smart pill called NZT. He tells us via narration, “Everything I’d ever read, seen and heard was now organized and available.”

Us in the real world can’t access that much brain power, but with Google Search, smart phones and some clarity of mind on our part, we can have tons of information ready to use, if only we make the decision to do so.

“All fear and shyness was now gone,” Eddie tells us. Yes, those are success blocks. But we don’t need a pill to rid ourselves of those blocks. Classes, books, hypnosis or just diving into where we have to go, can start eliminating fears.

After hooking up with higher caliber friends (his useless relationships are “better forgotten and put away in mothballs,” he says) and going to Puerto Valletta, Eddie says,”Mere lounging wasn’t enough.”

Yes, being a ‘lounger’ will not move us closer to what we really want. In that scene Eddie gets it: “Suddenly I knew what I needed to do. But it would take money to get there.”

Ah, money. Here’s where we lose a lot of people. My success teacher Dr. Paul Mastrodakus once said: “I can announce a seminar that says this coffee pot is God and I’ll get 100% sign up. But any seminar that has ‘money’ as the subject, people just don’t seem to want.” I wonder why? Maybe getting money sounds like work. But money, that symbol of energy, is a must in the real world to accomplish our goals and live our dreams.

With increased brain power, Eddie apologizes to his ex-girlfriend saying, “My power for self sabotage wasn’t boundless after all.” He then asks her, “Why did you stay with me for so long?”

When she asks when his book is coming out, he replies, “Next year,” and then immediately asks her about her job. It seems our hero has got off of his own problems and is now giving out interest to other people.

In the beginning of the film, when Eddie is standing on the ledge of the building ready to jump, he talks about “Wanting to make an impact on the world, instead of the pavement.” When explaining his book in the bar, Eddie mentions a ‘utopian society.’ So we can guess that his final goal might be helping the world.

When Eddie is accused of having ‘delusions of grandeur’ he retorts with, “I have an actual recipe for grandeur.” Ah, a plan. Definite plans get definite results. Indefinite plans do not get ‘indefinite results’, they get NO results. Eddie says, “I wasn’t high, I wasn’t wired, I was clear. I knew what I needed to do, and how to do it.”

Notice the first thing that Eddie does once he’s on NZT. He cleans up his ‘base of operations,’ his apartment. Where have you heard this before? Actually he first smoothes over his bad relationship with the landlord’s wife and helps her write her law class paper. Eddie is a giver.

Next as the ‘enhanced Eddie’, he gets a haircut, new clothes, exercises and starts learning; studying languages. Yes, sounds like the Rules Of Living the James Bond Lifestyle. He then finishes his novel in four days. This is possible without NTZ if you type 5 pages an hour,16 hours a day, for four days = 320 page book.

Yes, all this can be done without the NZT.. It just might take a little longer to reach the success level that we want.

Eddie says, “There are moments in your life when you cross a bridge and know that your old life is over.” This can scare some of us as it gets us out of our comfort zone to accept a change, even a positive change. But if a new life means, not having to run to the bank in 100 degree weather, because my car is broken, to make a $20 deposit to cover my overdue electric bill, then I’ll take that new life.

And while a high level of success is necessary to express our true selves, Eddie cautions us with, “We are all wired to over reach. Look at history, all the countries that ruled the world. No one stopped and said, ‘We’ve got France, Poland, a big Swiss bank account. Let’s not invade Russia in the winter. Let’s go home, pop a beer and live on the interest.'” Yes, better not fulfill the Peter Principle and rise to our level of our incompetence.

We see that Eddie can access classic literature when he compares Robert DeNiro’s energy customers to “Oliver Twist begging for his bowl of gruel.” Not bad to have an understanding of a few classics under your belt.

DeNiro makes a good point about earning your power by experience. He tells Eddie:

“Your super intellect is a gift from God, but you didn’t earn it because you’re careless with your power, flashing it around like a trust fund child. You never had to earn it year by year. You don’t know how to assess your competition because you never had to compete.”

Finally Eddie overcomes his challenges to get where he wants to go, the U.S. Senate. His next step will be the Presidency where he can accomplish the most good. However, the now evil and manipulative DeNiro wants to control Eddie so Eddie can pass laws to benefit DeNiro’s various companies. But now Eddie has learned to compete and gets rid of DeNiro with verbal strategy. Eddie won’t be corrupted.

Leaving the theater, after watching Limitless, I heard a patron remark, “I wish I had that pill.” To me it sounded like, “I’m not going to even try to ‘enhance’ myself’ like Eddie. I want a free ride.”

In fact, even on NZT, Eddie worked hard, studied, exercised, worked on his finances and upgraded his appearance. Things anyone can do without NTZ.

To me, real NZT is water, as 90% of the human brain is made of it. Just Google ‘benefits of water’ and see the 10 things water does for humans and how much more we should be drinking.

In fact, it’s Eddie’s ‘baptism’ in water, after he dives into the ocean, where he realizes his real purpose in life, which seems to unfold as: Improve himself to the point of being able to serve others and make a positive difference in the world.

Finally, like all success that we accept as ours, Eddie’s success in now internalized and natural. When he speaks to a waiter in Chinese, his girlfriend looks at him in awe. Eddie turns to her, sees her expression and says, “What?”

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The Ultimate Trip for James Bond Lifestyle Agents

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Here’s a car trip that James Bond wouldn’t have the time for. But If you do, your Bond girl will never forget it. She’ll be catching her breath for months.

Fly to Nassau in the Bahamas, off the coast of Florida, where they filmed Thunderball and Casino Royale. Stay at the Atlantis Hotel. Arrange to go to Blue Lagoon Island, just a 20 minute boat ride away, to swim with the dolphins.http://www.dolphinencounters.com/

Next, fly to Orlando for a few days at DisneyWorld. Stay at the Animal Kingdom Lodge. Get a room on the animal view side.

Then take Amtrak train from there, overnight to Philadelphia.
http://www.amtrak.com/

From the Philadelphia train station, rent a car (with a Navigational system) and drive to Atlantic City to see the Boardwalk, the Atlantic Ocean, and gamble a little. It’s up to you if you stay overnight or just look around for half a day.

Then drive 2 hr. 20 min. to Lancaster County in Pennsylvania to see the Amish locations via a tour that leaves the Visitor Center.

Next drive southwest passing through the Gettysburg civil war battle field and monuments. Drive through Tennessee, ending up in Memphis. Stay at Heartbreak Hotel. It’s small but fun and convenient. Tour Elvis’ Graceland.

Next, head to Albuquerque and stay at the Hotel Albuquerque in Old Town Shop and eat at old town. Don’t miss the Rattlesnake Museum. Small, creepy, but an experience. http://www.rattlesnakes.com And visit the Bead and Fetish shop to let her make her own necklace and buy an Indian Power Animal ‘Fetish’.

Then it’s up to Monument Valley where the only place to stay is
Gouldings Lodge. http://www.gouldings.com/

Drive to the visitor’s center where you can hire a Native American to take you by jeep to see the sights. But you might prefer to use your own car and enjoy the sights with more freedom. Beware the bumpy road. Drive slow.

Next drive down to the Grand Canyon and stay at one of the rim hotels as mentioned before. Then down to Flagstaff and back track 30 miles to see the Meteor Crater. Yes, it’s just a big whole, but it also has an interesting museum and there’s a Subway sandwich shop there for a quick bite.

Next up is Las Vegas. Plan that to your style

From Vegas it’s four hour drive to Disneyland and the Los Angeles attractions.

For Disneyland, stay at the Disney Pier Hotel. It’s a smaller hotel than the others on the Disney lot for a quieter stay. Visit Disney’s two parks & drive 10 min. to Knott’s Berry Farm.

Then stay a night or two at the Universal Hilton and visit the studio attractions. Don’t miss the tram tour with the new surround 3D experience of King Kong’s Island and Transformers ride.

After surviving the Jurassic Park dinosaurs, drive north toward San Francisco, stopping at the small Scandinavian town of Solvang for some quick eating and shopping

Next stop is Monterey where you can sleep at the Portola Hotel & Spa near Fisherman’s Wharf and go whale watching the next morning.

Just 15 minutes from there is Carmel. Park and walk down Ocean Ave to see the shops and end up at the beach.

An optional side trip will take you to the beautiful Yosemite National Park. http://www.yosemitepark.com/

Then on to Santa Cruz to ride the Giant Dipper at the Beach Boardwalk. Find the Bazookas that shoots tennis balls at targets and blast a few.

From there it’s 90 minutes to San Francisco. Stay at the Fisherman’s Wharf Hilton for a few days.

Don’t miss the 45 minute bay cruise, the Cliff House, and Chinatown. The “motorized cable car” tours near the pier have great 90 minute and 3 hour tours.

After that, turn in your rental car at the SF Airport and fly home, knowing you surpassed any trip James Bond has ever been on. …. though he might argue the point.

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Daniel Craig Mocked, But Could Have Answered

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Craig, tells what happened.

Every James Bond fan remembers when it was announced that Daniel Craig would replace Pierce Brosnan as 007. One group of fans were quick to show their dislike of Craig by setting up a web site called; “Craig is not Bond”. The media caught on to this and reported the fan’s displeasure of Craig as the new 007.

For Craig’s first press conference as the new 007, he rode a Royal Marine high-speed powerboat up the river Thames to the interview location. The press mocked him for wearing a life jacket saying, “It was a very un-Bond thing to do.” Craig’s only response was, “It scared the Bleep out of me.”

That’s when Craig’s image as a macho man came into question. Photos appeared in the press showing Craig in the powerboat with a caption that read; “The daring new 007 arrives scared and in a life jacket.”

Five years later Craig explained: “I got down to the river to the military speedboat and there was this marine giving me a life jacket. I was like ‘Do I have to wear this?’ and he was like, ‘Yeah, you’re not getting on this boat without one’.”

If Craig had been thinking on his feet for that first press conference, he could have said;

“Of course James Bond would have worn a life jacket. He would never take an unneeded risk that could jeopardize his mission. If Bond is momentarily stunned, falls into the water and drowns because he didn’t wear a life jacket, the mission would fail and lives would be lost. In fact, the marine in my boat is wearing a life jacket too.”

Of course, in that situation few of use would have come up with a good answer, or any answer. But one lesson us James Bond Lifestyle agents can learn from this is to never take an unneeded risk just for the sake of appearing macho. You’ll notice in Casino Royale, Quantum of Solace and Skyfall, Bond is wearing his seat belt.

A Tip from the World’s Greatest Playboy

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Did you see The Adventurers based on the Harold Robbins novel? The lead character, Dax Xenos, was based on real life European playboy Porfirio Rubirosa.

Sammy Davis Jr. once asked him, “How do you do it? Attend every party, play polo, date women, go yachting, day after day, yet you always look good and never tired?”

“What I do Sammy, is pace myself. I never go to a party too early or stay too late. I drink only a little and watch what I eat. And even if I’m entertaining a woman, I always get my sleep.”

This is great advice for anyone wanting to live the James Bond Lifestyle. On films I’ve directed, the amateurs party every night and are zombies by the second week. The professionals are fresh, energetic, and prepared everyday. Why? They pace themselves. They sleep.

When Clint Eastwood started preparing to direct his first movie, Play Misty for Me, he asked vetren director Don Dirty Harry Seigal for advice.

Seigal gave him only, “Get a lot of sleep.”

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Frank Sinatra Learns About True Friendship

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In 1952 Frank Sinatra was down on his luck and singing to small
Audiences at Skinny D'Amato's club in.  He planned to go to
Africa to visit his wife Ava Gardner who was there filming the
Movie "Magambo" with Clark Gable. She had sent him the airfare,
But Sinatra was broke. 

Seated at a lounge table with Joe DiMaggio and Skinny D'Amato,
Frank asked the baseball great for a thousand dollar loan so
That he could buy Ava a gift. 

DiMaggio refused. When Sinatra was absent, DiMaggio said to
D'Amato, "I never loan money to a has been."  D'Amato asked
DiMaggio to loan it to him.  Fiquring the powerful nightclub
Owner was good for it, DiMaggio gave D'Amato a  thousand
Dollars. Later D'Amato gave it to Sinatra.  Not loaned, gave.

On top of that, D'Amato bought Sinatra a solid gold watch
Saying, "This is to remind you that you'll be back on top
Again.  And bigger than before."  When Sinatra became the most
Powerful man in Hollywood a few years later, he never forgot
His loyal friend and performed every year at the 500 Club for
Free.

This story has a lot of different things in it to examine. If
You happen to be down on your luck now, or have a close friend
That is in a slump, you can see:

1 - The importance of a loyal friend. 

2 - The power of a new watch. (Whether you buy it or receive it
    As a gift). 

3 - The power of good words to a friend that needs encouragement.

4 - The beginnings of Joe DiMaggio's well earned reputation as
    a cheapskate.

5 - The paying back of help received in difficult times.

Whether you're up or down, you help a friend or not, you're
Cheap or giving, you are always relating with people.  And you
Are always either building or destroying a career, friendship,
Or reputation.
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The Only Way to be Cool Like 007

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When James Bond is under pressure he doesn’t fold. He focuses. He can call up his talent at will when dismantling a ticking bomb or when talking with an interesting woman. Want to do this too? There’s only one way. Start taking gentle rulership over your personality (body,mind,feelings).

But your personality will fight the real you with “pulls” distracting you from your goals, and with “blocks” which stop you with fear. Your individuality is perfect. But the personality is not. The body gets tired, the mind forgetful, and the emotions sad, impatient, and angry.

It is your job to raise up these three energies of the personality to maturity. Just as you raise up children. Finally you will be able to express the perfection that is you, using the tools of the personality. This will not make you an “unfeeling robot”. It will actually free up your energies so that you can feel what you want to feel, when you want to feel it.

This is the most important aspect of living The James Bond lifestyle. For only when you realize that you are not your personality, but perfect individual energy and start taking gentle control of your three personality energies, can you begin to upgrade all areas of your life.

So be like Bond. Take control and express the cool perfection that is you.

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